Understand What Chinese Girls Think and How To Satisfy Them.
By David Foo
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Most Chinese women are passive in nature and normally didn’t take initiative to tackle the desired man they wanted except few who really fall for the man and those who are more daring will make the first move. From Chinese perspective, it is a safe guard for keeping the high moral standard not to be too aggressive. Therefore, if you had feeling for a lady, by all means, express your feelings to them and not play the mind game to make yourself suffered as much as to her.
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Women when being courted had complicated feelings, maybe she was delighted and yet was having anxiety and fear. To the man who march into their peaceful arena, she didn’t want to accept nor decline at the beginning, thousands of butterflies are flying in their stomach. This is perfectly normal, please do not regard this as refusal, she wasn’t  trying to test you out, she in fact was having an internal struggle herself as she worries she might get hurts. So, the advice for you is to try all means to convince her you are safe and hurting her is the last things on your mind.
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Do not feel despair when you are rejected, it is common to get declinations, get your feet together and perhaps after a few round of persistent courtships, she will be moved and changed her mind toward you, a kind hearted lady is easily touched by unusual determination and courage demonstrated by you.
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However, upon repeated turn downs, if you stop all your acts at once and started ignoring the lady as you started to close yourself up to lick your wounds and suffer in silence, you might never knew the lady had actually regretted to refuse you, maybe she weeps secretly and feel great pains when she see the ignorance in your eyes. No doubt she will never, never beg you to return to her as she felt you might not be sincere after all, otherwise why give up so easily?
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In conclusion, man such as ourselves should remains gentleman and continue to express goodwill against them even after they had say “no†to you to demonstrated we are still indeed sincere toward them. Even if the courtship did turn out unsuccessful we will not have any regrets. As gentleman we must be daring, women after all are emotional being, easily indulge in love. All the hard works invested will have multiple returns once your sincerity had penetrated her inner most space.
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True love which bear sweet fruits are catered for those who dares to pursue. As gentleman we must always be bold and initiative, otherwise the lady would have thought that you have no guts and in addition you yourself will be great pain and sufferings and most importantly you get nothing in returns. We must be the one who take initiative to fight for the true love ourselves as nobody will hand them onto your hand.
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